Preparing for marriage

Like so many of us ( including myself )  we wonder how best can we prepare ourselves for marriage  and how can one solidify that precious relationship that we want to have with our soon to be spouse? Here are some ways that I found really interesting in the class. one thing that I remember is just because your getting engaged doesn't mean that the courting should stop there! in fact that's the perfect time to do more things that a husband and wife would be doing like making choices!. That is a huge responsibility one that I don't think a lot of newly wed couples are to aware of is the choices that they need to be making NOW! not later in a marriage.  I feel that it is important for people to start making choices now one big time that we talked about where choices could help was  planning a wedding ( Le gasp! Did I say that!?!? Yes I did.)  I know that planning a wedding seems like it should only be the brides thing to do, but this is some very critical time in a relationship where BOTH Spouses can be making a impact on such a special day.  Yes even though we of the Male gender have very little sense of coordinating a wedding it still is important to our spouses that we help them figure out what to do, what looks nice imputing our feelings and thoughts on it do this because that will make you a smart future husband is letting her know that you care about some of the little things in the planning.

I think another big important part in this is to understand planning is a huge one not just in a wedding sense, but where to live? How to figure out the roles of YOUR NEW FAMILY when it happens Who will work and what will happen when a bundle of joy comes along?  Its things like that a couple need to start thinking and planning for in their marriage way ahead of time. Also continue to court and try not being selfish towards your spouse